What to say to your physical therapist

What You’re Not Telling Your Physical Therapist May Be Harming You
Whether you’re meeting a physical therapist for the first time, or are currently in a treatment program, it’s important to know how to best communicate any questions, or concerns, you may have. Think of your PT as you would your regular doctor. The more you share with them, the better they can care for you.

Be Ready to Come Prepared
When beginning a treatment program, you’ll want to do your part and provide the physical therapist with a background of your medical history. This will help your PT to better identify your condition and determine an appropriate form of treatment. Things you’ll want to consider including are:

  • A full list of your meds, X-rays, MRIs, or any other medical information.
  • Making a list of questions you may want to ask your PT, such as:
    1. Does Your PT have experience with treating your condition?
    2. Will you be seeing the same PT for each treatment session?
    3. How often will your visits be?
    4. Will your PT be providing you with a list of at-home exercises/therapy to perform?

Be Honest with Yourself and Your PT
Just like when seeing your regular physician, your physical therapist will also ask you how you’re feeling, and if there have been any changes in your condition. And, like a visit to the doctor’s office, it’s important to communicate and build trust with your PT. Be open and honest about your treatment. Tell them if you’re experiencing any pain, if you’re feeling discouraged with your progress, etc. Now is the time to share any thoughts, or questions, you may have. These may also include:

  • Telling your PT of any changes in your condition during treatment. Are your symptoms getting better, or worse?
  • Are you feeling physically able to do additional exercises in the treatment program?
  • How long will your treatment program last, and at what physical capacity do they expect you to be able to function after completion?

Never hide or downplay the truth about what you’re experiencing during therapy. This only makes it more difficult for your PT to effectively treat you.

Know Your Own Goals
Share your own objectives regarding the treatment program with your physical therapist. Compare notes on your goals and progress. Just remember, keep an open line of communication between you and your PT to achieve the treatment results you’re both working for.

Schedule an appointment today and let a Pure HealthyBack PT guide you through a personally designed treatment program to reach your physical therapy goals!

June 16, 2021

A good physical therapist can tell a lot about your family, your job, and your health—without you ever saying a word.

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What do physical therapists do?

At a basic level, physical therapists help people heal. That usually involves learning about the health, symptoms, and goals of their patients followed by a plan for managing and relieving symptoms. But before they even lay eyes on your medical chart, physical therapists can tell so much about your wellbeing by looking at you. Here are the secrets they know.

You sit too much at work

“People are less active today due to technology and better mass transportation. Sedentary jobs have increased 83 percent since 1950 and physically active jobs now make up less than 20 percent of our workforce. Plus our average workweek is longer—about 47 hours working each week—and all this sitting takes a toll. When I see the trifecta of back pain, neck pain, and repetitive strain injuries, I know you are sitting too long at work and not taking breaks.” —Joe Tatta, physical therapist and author of Heal Your Pain Now. (If you do have a desk job this is the essential stretch you need.)

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You have a drinking problem

“Typically a patient’s posture and soft tissue or muscle restrictions can reveal stress or fatigue, like from a hangover. Additionally, because I see them so frequently, I can notice any other signs of disturbance in their daily function. I never judge though and try to build a level of trust with my patients that not only allows me to use my hands to treat them, but makes them feel comfortable enough to open up to me about whatever may be impacting their physical health.” —Matt Rector, physical therapist at H&D Physical Therapy in Manhattan

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You hate vegetables

“Just by looking at [someone’s] somatotype (body shape) and phenotypical traits I can tell which health problems they are likely to be at risk of or already suffering from. For example, striations in their fingernails and cracked skin indicate they are deficient in essential minerals, vitamins, and other nutrients.” —Matt Reimann, MS, CEO of ph360 

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You’re a runner who doesn’t stretch

“If you are a competitive or recreational runner but do not stretch or strengthen you can be predisposing yourself to injury. Many people complain of chronic hamstring strains or struggle with knee pain from tight IT bands. I can tell just by looking at the way you walk or the muscle imbalances you have that you’ve been running too much and need to balance out your program.” —Joe Tatta

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When you’re lying

“People assume pain is a simple response to a stimulus and that a straightforward exercise or modality will fix them. However, it often is much more complex, and we have to tease various things out of a patient to better understand their pain. It is my job to find out the stressful things about a patient’s life, their work, their family, their marriage, and others. Sometimes they tell me things they have never told anybody. We also find out things that are encouraging to them, and sometimes they find positives they had not realized before. To help someone truly understand and deal with the pain we need to help them find a balance between these things. It is only then that our various treatments will achieve their best chance of success.” —Andrew Walker, physical therapist, owner of PhysioWorks, Sports, and Wellness, in Huntsville, Alabama

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Your romantic life is suffering

“That sore back isn’t just one of the most common reasons for skipping work. It can also affect your happiness in the bedroom. Certain positions may increase lower back or pelvic pain, especially for women, leading them to avoid intimacy. It doesn’t have to be this way though; a physical therapist can help you and your partner get back to normal.” —Joe Tatta

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Your baby won’t stop crying

“Sometimes I can just tell by looking at a mom that her child isn’t sleeping or seems to be crying all of the time when she puts him or her on the floor. When I put my hands on my patients, I can feel their frustration and listen to their problems. Often the child lacks mobility so they become frustrated so they act out with behaviors, cry, and are restless which takes a physical and mental toll on both of them.” —Katie Henry, physical therapist and health coach

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You’re depressed

“My patients’ bodies give me clues to their emotional state. I’ve become fairly accurate in knowing when I’m working with a patient with anxiety or depression. There are two clues. The first is whether a patient is able to relax enough to allow me to easily move their limbs passively. If they can’t this tells me there is excessive tension in their system. Second are trigger points, tender little knots within the muscles. Often pressing on a trigger point will cause a referral pain elsewhere. So when someone has many trigger points in some key areas, in addition to not allowing smooth passive movement of a limb, I begin to suspect an underlying emotional stressor creating excessive tension in their system.” —Rick Olderman, sports and orthopedic physical therapist and author of the Fixing You series

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You pee a little every time you laugh

“Pelvic floor disorders, especially urinary incontinence, affect up to one-quarter of American women. Many people don’t realize that this is something a doctor of physical therapy can help. Learning exercises to strengthen and retrain the pelvic floor muscles can reverse or prevent urinary incontinence in both men and women. Weak pelvic floor muscles can manifest as pain and weakness not just in the pelvic area but also in the legs and hips. Don’t be embarrassed to bring it up with us, chances are we already know.” —Joe Tatta

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You reserve a table for one

“There are many patients who are withdrawn and lonely, and it is evident during treatment. They will ‘overreact’ or have negativity surrounding their level of pain (for instance saying their pain level is 10 out of 10 for even the slightest movement), and think of things as glass half empty versus half full. They also tend to have a withdrawn posture.” —Lawrence Kim, a board-certified orthopedic physical therapist at Edge Physical Therapy and Sports Medicine

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You have abuse in your past

“People with a history of physical or emotional trauma are more likely to struggle with chronic pain syndromes. We doctors of physical therapy are good at recognizing the link between trauma and its effect on the body and helping to treat it.” —Joe Tatta

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What you do for a living

“Patients will come into treatment with a style and plan based on their job. Lawyers need to understand the full relevance of the treatment and its concrete evidence of how it’s supposed to work, engineers want to know the mechanics behind each exercise, and mechanics will often think of their bodies as a combination of auto parts put together and so forth. I can figure out pretty quickly what you do just based on how you react to your treatment, even if you don’t tell me straight out.” —Lawrence Kim

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You’re constipated

“Digestive issues and discomfort are very common and I can feel areas of tension. If their tummy is tight or painful, or if it hurts to stretch out, it often has to do with stool or gas.” —Katie Henry

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You text too much

“Watching my patient sitting in a chair tells me a lot about the current state of their body. If they round their spine into a ‘C’ shape, let their head and neck hang forward, and round their shoulders forward—as one does when they hunch over their phone for hours a day—this means their upper and lower diaphragms are compromised and they are forced to breathe with the muscles of their neck. Neck breathing leads to the activation of the sympathetic nervous system, better known as the ‘fight or flight’ system. A person with this type of posture releases higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which leads to poor sleep, increased appetite, and decreased ability of their body to heal.” —Tim Cummings, physical therapist at Elite Physical Therapy and Integrative Health in Missouri

Sources

  • Joe Tatta, DPT, CCN, author of Heal Your Pain Now
  • Matt Rector, PT, DPT, physical therapist at H&D Physical Therapy in Manhattan
  • Matt Reimann, MS, CEO of ph360
  • Andrew Walker, PT, owner of PhysioWorks, Sports, and Wellness, in Huntsville, Alabama
  • Katie Henry, physical therapist and health coach
  • Rick Olderman, MSPT, a sports and orthopedic physical therapist and author of the Fixing You series
  • Lawrence Kim, PT, DPT, OCS, a board-certified orthopedic physical therapist at Edge Physical Therapy and Sports Medicine
  • Tim Cummings, physical therapist at Elite Physical Therapy and Integrative Health in Missouri

Originally Published: March 16, 2018

How do you thank a physical therapist?

If you wish to express your gratitude to your physical therapist for helping you during your recovery after injury, the best gift is a well-written card expressing your thanks. Be sure to address the card to your PT, but make sure that your physical therapist's supervisor is aware of your sentiments.

How do you say thank you to your therapist?

7 ways to thank your therapist:.
Tell a Friend. Therapists love when someone contacts them and shares they were referred by a friend, family member, or neighbor who had a great experience. ... .
Write a Note. ... .
Do the Feedback Survey. ... .
Send an Occasional Update. ... .
Share in a Local Facebook Group. ... .
Give Stars. ... .
Just Ask..

Is it OK to thank your therapist?

Daramus recommends writing a card or note, which is always acceptable, or leaving a good review of their practice online. "Therapists love to know that our work is appreciated," she says.

Does physical therapy hurt before it gets better?

Discomfort and soreness are to be expected, because physical therapy, in order to work, must train your body. This is the same principle that applies when building strength through exercising or working out. The muscles must experience a certain amount of stress, which can lead to irritation and soreness.